the thing about cosmetic surgery,vanity and facial improvement had inflicted my mind long ago.since i was in high school i chose to look presentable,formal,groomed and tried to improve my look in every way i can do.then i entered college.things suddenly changed.i used to be vain before but it was just my own choice but now it's like i am required to be vain, obliged to follow the trends and be IN; not by wearing the latest clothes but by being presentable, always composed,looking smart and handsome.then i start getting tips on how to improve my looks from friends and from the people around me.BUT although im attached to being VAIN as what my friends labelled me, im still practical or should i say economical.
i had this friend,she is a she.we always talk about anything especially on improving the looks.she told me that she started spending bukcs for her facil treatments twoo years ago.her objective?to get rid of those pimples and to have a fairer skin.then she started visiting different dermatologists/clinics whenever the the former fails to to satisfy her. the just this aftrenoon, i saw her face with some big zits.i asked her why. she told me it was because of the crystal something that she had undergone through last friday.she went back to the clinic then asked the desk lady why it had resulted in to that.the lady told her that she has to apply certain medications to eradicate those zits.(she had bought lots of medicine like creams and tablets before and tried lamost everything).she told us what the lady told her.we were shocked!theyre just sipping money form her.they would ask her to buy those things, telling her different benefits and miracles.we told her to stop meddling with her body's natural functions.it was just her body excreting toxins out of her.let it pass naturally without interferring/preventin or blocking what is supposed to happen.i just hoped that she listened to us.
LOOKS: the basis of a relationship
looks???its very imporatnt.it is the external manifestation of our insights and thought someth\imes desire.it is what people looked at us and it is what we present to the society.some people are blessed with good looks,with assets; nose job done like nose,tantlizing eyes,kissable lips,rosy cheeks,jet black hair,towering height,sexy body,fair skin,nice tan,pearly white teeth,long eyelashes or an overall good looks. but unfortunately there are also people who are not as lucky as the ones who has those great assets.but is its really the basis on how you choose your partner???
all of us for sure wants to have a perfect partner.someone who is msart,cool,understnding and of course good looking.sometimes we even set standards for our partner.but what if you liked someone but he is not that good looikng?i mean youre not on the same level of beauty.would you go for that person or lean back for the sake of not being criticise?is it really love that you feel or just infatuation?it is not bad too look for someone who has the same level of beauty like yours but to sacrifice your true feelings is too much. but i cant blame them. its natural for us to find someone who is presentable, someone you can be proud of.like "hey guys this is my fiance" and would receive positive compliments.to have a reputation of being so bagay together.they complement each other or they they were meant to be.
have you seen couples who are not at the same level of good lookingness????like the girl is so pretty and the guy is like a tambay?????or the guy would be a heartthrob and the girl has this pimple infested face???or someone who is so opposite that you wouldnt actually imagine them being together????it is not their fault!!!!!it is destiny that approves the togetherness of two people.it is IT that makes things complicated and gives things a twist.a big twist. but in fairness to those who were deprived of good looks, they sometimes are the ones who perseveres and has the true feelings.unadulterated by others and a constant love.
so to end this talk:unfortunately i dont know how to make a good conclusion.
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