"carry my bag" or ill "carry your bag"

of course, all of us have seen couples walking together in the mall, streets, schools...walking together holding hands or magkaakbayan aor just together..but ONE thing i notice always is that the guy BRINGS THE HANDBAG OF THE GIRL!!!..yeah..that small little thingy that has her kikay kit and stuff..that even a child could carry.....my point is! why does HE have to carry HER SMALL BAG??!!.. yeah its a sign of gentlemanliness but i just thought that its super OA!!..ewan ko..but whenver i see couples like that i just say "OMG, ang bigat ng bag mo". isnt it too OA for a lady to let her man bring it?? diba you could carry it naman... i just dont find it cute..for others maybe but for me..its a TURNOFF. bringing your own stuff makes you look independent..not so attach to your BF..kaya nga you brought it, for your own not for HIM>..cguro pag ganun it would just be fair if the girls would carry OUR BACKPACKS while we carry your handbags.